How To Use A Vibrator For Heterosexual Couples?

by Alex Miller

How to use a vibrator for heterosexual couples?

One of the most common sex questions is “how to use a vibrator as a couple”? Contrary to popular belief, vibrators are also good prostate stimulators for men. According to the latest research, men can orgasm with a vibrator as well as women. Until now men have used vibrators to please their female partner, so they have been missing out entirely on another dimension of sex.

Sex Toys and Men

In the past using a sex toy, especially a vibrator for men has been taboo but it’s time to change that. Due to the phallic nature of vibrators, historically some heterosexual men allow the toys to intimidate them. According to sex educator Kim Switnicky, “men can also be intimidated by vibrators as the toys may be larger than they are, or they simply feel that they can’t “keep up” with the speed and stamina of a vibrator.” This is where the female partner should take charge of the situation and introduce the sex toy to their male partner.

How to use a vibrator on men?

In the beginning, to ease the introduction of the toy, the female partner can use it on themself first and then show their male partner how to use the vibrator on them. This will allow the male partner to be a part of the action. When the male partner becomes acclimated to the idea of “using a vibrator”, the woman can perform oral sex or stimulate the penis or scrotum with their hand while also using the vibrator on him. The vibrator can be used by rubbing it along the penis or moving it along the perineum (the place between testicles and anus). Keep in mind, the perineum is a very sensitive area, that's why the partner wielding the vibrator should be very careful and gentle and always check-in for feedback. The vibrator can also be used along the thighs to provide pleasurable sensations.

How to get pleasure from the vibrator during sexual intercourse?

During intercourse, either partner can hold the vibrator to stimulate either the clitoris or penis and perineum area, it is also fun to alternate back on forth between partners who are getting stimulated and doing the stimulating. During intercourse, this is usually most easily achieved in missionary or doggy-style positions but can vary depending on the couple’s athleticism and flexibility. Other vibrating toys like bullets or eggs inside the vagina or vibrating cock cages, can also be incorporated into intercourse so both partners can enjoy the sensation of vibration.


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