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Prostate Stimulation For More Intense Orgasms Sex acts don’t have orientations, so don’t stress about that. If you’re new to prostate play, I’d recommend starting with a manual massager like s …

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Dear Cay,My wife and I have been married for 23 years. We have three wonderful kids. We both work. Life is busy, but it is good. She and I have had a good sex life, but recently, I am not interested …

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Is erectile dysfunction a symptom of Covid?Dear Cay,My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. We lived apart for most of that time but moved in together in January of this year just b …

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Welcome to the World of TeledildonicsEven though the world is socially distancing, it is still possible to have a banging good time sexually, with a little technology of course. Welcome to the world …

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Does Having Sex During A Break Count As Cheating?Dear Cay, My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years except for a 6-month separation during our first year. We plan to get married. Last w …

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How To Have Safe Sex During A Pandemic?Dear Cay,I believe that the Coronavirus pandemic is allowing people to practice clear communication and boundaries that could be applied to practicing safe sex …

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Is It Possible To Have An Orgasm After Gender Confirmation Surgery?Dear Cay,I was wondering whether or not people who have gender confirmation surgery can still experience orgasm. These individuals …

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Why Do I Have A Diaper Fetish?Dear CayI have never written to an advice columnist but I just don’t know who to talk to about this. I am addicted wearing diapers! This started when I was young. I …

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Dear Cay,I have been happily married for 3 years. Everything is good, except for the first time in my marriage; I have a HUGE crush on a coworker. I've admired other men but haven't had these strong …

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Should I Be Jealous Of My Boyfriend’s ExesDear Cay,My boyfriend and I have been together for about two years. Things are great between us however I find myself feeling jealous of his former girlfri …

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How To Find A Third For A Threesome?Dear Cay,My girlfriend and I want to have a threesome but we are not sure where to begin. Can you help us out?3way2dayA Threesome Is The Most Common Sexual Fanta …

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I Peed On My Boyfriend!Dear Cay,I always have to pee like crazy after sex. The last time I had sex, my boyfriend followed me into the bathroom. Just as I went to sit on the toilet, he laid in the …

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